If I ever speak of marriage again, someone please kill me

[88ssp]

Yep-2nd marriage down the drain. I, now, realize I was nothing but a walking dollar sign to her. Because she put the car she bought for me in her name before we got married, the damn thing is technically hers and I have to either surrender it to her or buy it off of her for the fair market value. I will be damned if I'm going to pay for that effin car twice.

So I am surrendering it to her along with the house, and every fuking thing we bought while we were married. I want out of this loveless marriage.

Nothing like being married for 2.25 years and sleeping in different rooms for 1.5 of that time period.

We have , er she has, four fucking cars and she can't even give me the one that I want.

So, just like when I was a kid, I'm returning my toy in the same condition it was in when she let me borrow it for 4 years I guess.

I'm pulling all of the aftermarket parts off of it and putting them in storage so I can buy another car--even a roller and put all of my good stuff onto it.

I am returning it to stock so if anyone has anything lying around that is stock for a fox, let me know

Engine
rearend
shocks/struts/springs
lower control arms
front brake hardware--stock stuff
etc, etc.

[DeckerEnt]

Damn guy. Sorry to hear that. Any kids to deal with? As far as the car, return it to stock, if you can't find the stock parts, f-it. Tow it to her place, throw the title in the yard and walk. Remember you get half of what you made together. If she has stuff, half of it is yours. Stick to your guns. Oh and if you have any of those, PM me. Got a solution to that.

[88ssp]

no kids, thankfully.

[2Kblacksleeper]

I just took off some really worn out rear shocks on my sn-95 today. Let me know it you want them and i will get them back as long as he did not throw them away. I may have some spindles also? let me look.

Sorry to hear about your situtation though. I am comming from the same thing. It hurts at first, but trust me you are and will be better off.

Let me know if i can help out with anything else.
John

[mustangboy]

Damn dude sorry to hear about your crazy bitch. I do have some stock springs, lower control arms for sure, maybe uppers, stock upper and lower intakes, brake caliper and rotors and rear backing plate and drums, stock axles and I'm sure some other stuff. I'll happily donate it if it helps you save the good stuff. Let me know if you want any of it.

[347sc]

Damn, sorry to hear about this. I would not go down with out a fight. I know some of the horror story from the last and I feel for you man. Bad things happen to good people with out any explanation but dont let it change who you are. Keep your head up.

[bobtsgt]

damn that sucks big time. worse comes to worse on the motor just drain it and rev it to the sky. Then its all hers.

[facemelter71]

When I head to my dads place this weekend Ill make a list of what I have for you and you can pick through all the stock parts I have.

[Blackpony]

sorry to hear.

[RIXXX93GT]

Sorry to hear yoru going through a rough time. Take some of the others advice, dont short change yourself just because you want out, a little more grief now by putting up a fight for what you feel is yours is worth it. Things will be better.

[MrsAPE]

Sad to hear. Hang in there.

[Lt. Dangle]

damn that sucks big time. worse comes to worse on the motor just drain it and rev it to the sky. Then its all hers.

That's the first thought that crossed my mind.:lol:

If at all possible, take every bit of the good shit off of the car, including the wheels, 5 lug, etc...then drag the body onto a rollback, and drop it off in front of "her house" sitting on the frame. She will likely re-think that situation, once her neighbors give a complaint or two about her attempting to start a salvage yard at her house.

Good luck with everything though man.

[Gene]

http://www.theonion.com/content/news/empowered_man_murders_controlling?utm_source=a-section

[88ssp]

Well, now she has taken pictures of everything on the car and has contacted her lawyer about my possible intentions of taking things off of the car. She had the cops over tonight to make sure I didn't mess with anything on the car. Everything is evidence, now.

[bbfstanger]

you better get a lawyer to protect yourself or you'll get screwed.
best of luck.

[bbfstanger]

i dont think a judge would care much about the car accessaries as long as you can provide a safe stock vehicle.
if she then didnt want it then well hey? its yours lol!
the parts you took off you had to sell to get council;)
just speakin from experience.

[88ssp]

well, the car is in her name, so technically I dont know if they can get me for stealing.

[Maximus]

Yep-2nd marriage down the drain. I, now, realize I was nothing but a walking dollar sign to her. Because she put the car she bought for me in her name before we got married, the damn thing is technically hers and I have to either surrender it to her or buy it off of her for the fair market value. I will be damned if I'm going to pay for that effin car twice.

So I am surrendering it to her along with the house, and every fuking thing we bought while we were married. I want out of this loveless marriage.

Nothing like being married for 2.25 years and sleeping in different rooms for 1.5 of that time period.

We have , er she has, four fucking cars and she can't even give me the one that I want.

So, just like when I was a kid, I'm returning my toy in the same condition it was in when she let me borrow it for 4 years I guess.

I'm pulling all of the aftermarket parts off of it and putting them in storage so I can buy another car--even a roller and put all of my good stuff onto it.

I am returning it to stock so if anyone has anything lying around that is stock for a fox, let me know

Engine
rearend
shocks/struts/springs
lower control arms
front brake hardware--stock stuff
etc, etc.

Go Fuck her sister.


I have some stock 3:27s you can have.

[mustang8998]

Ken, This sucks bud!

I don't have much of the stock stuff left over, but if I have anything that will help, it's yours! I hope you all can come to an agreement and be able to keep the car. I know how much work you put in to it.

Fucking BITCHES!

[blk93notch]

have a car alarm on it? im not saying anything like it could come up missing and you could strip it and take the parts for the next car you have. im sure theres people that would help strip it and then cut the car up.

it sucks to hear what you are going through

[CNTLOSE]

The Police can not do anything, it is a civil matter. Unless you have a court order or protection order saying different you can take the car a do whatever you want to it right now...it is community property. Now you may have to pay for things down the road pending how your divorce settlement goes, but no one can prove if you forgot to tighten the oil plug.

Why is it people always have to be an asshole when it comes to divorce? Things did not work out, let us move on with our lives. But no instead lets screw the other person as much as possible and pretend we are 4 years old, mine, mine, mine!

[Mista Bone]

Greed, very simple.

I say split everything in 1/2.

hopefully this works.....

http://www.motifake.com/demotivational-poster/0903/divorce-demotivational-poster-1238218421.jpg

[Mista Bone]

Oh yeah, I might not speak very highly of my lazy exwife, but we did agree to a disolution as to not drag everything out through the courts.

[88ssp]

yeah, a dissolution is the way we are going. Can someone make that divorce picture my avatar, lol.

[Mista Bone]

Wait, if you are going the easy route, why you giving up so much?

EVERYTHING must be agreed upon, sounds like you are giving up too easily.

Don't be a pussy about it, atleast keep the car if she is getting the house.

[Kwik92GT]

Wait, if you are going the easy route, why you giving up so much?

EVERYTHING must be agreed upon, sounds like you are giving up too easily.

Don't be a pussy about it, atleast keep the car if she is getting the house.

Agreed. Speaking as someone who has been there before, you will gain NOTHING by being the nice guy. No kids makes it even easier. You'll need to be the biggest asshole she's seen in her life until this is over. That is, as long as she wants to go the route she seems to be going. You'll only screw yourself just trying to get out of this thing, and putting it behind you. There will be plenty of time for that. Make sure to come to an agreement that truly works for BOTH of you, you'll be MUCH happier in the long run. My .02.

[Mista Bone]

oh yeah, avatar......

http://i107.photobucket.com/albums/m307/bonespec/divorce.jpg

[beefcake]

dude, don't lay down

me and my wife did a dissolution, but we were still cool about stuff and didn't have much

don't lay down

[k062693w]

Why is it people always have to be an asshole when it comes to divorce? Things did not work out, let us move on with our lives. But no instead lets screw the other person as much as possible and pretend we are 4 years old, mine, mine, mine!

I have always had the philosophy that if it's ending, It's ending for a reason !!! And not because you are best friends !!! If that were the case then why would it be ending ???
I have seen too many friends go with the old "I'll just let her have what she wants" and in the end they are still the bad guy !!!
I say be the bigger A$$HOLE and ask for everything she is wanting, Just to show her how she is acting...
Just my $.02

[ruby71oh]

Hey Ken! Sorry to hear that things are not going your way! Isn't this the same woman you were asking for help for because she was in jail for dog stealing???...should've left her there...oh, shit! my bad!! was that out loud! Anyways, let me know if you need anything. You still at the coldwell banker building in the lovely turkeyfoot area? Maybe I'll stop in one of these days...I know...I've said it before! Hang in there and I'm sure some friends will make a run north for help if needed!

[88ssp]

Yep, same woman. I made the decision. The dog stuff was the last straw.

It seems I'm gonna buy the car back. I know it isn't want I want to do, but I'm buying it back for less than it is really worth. I can't replicate the car for what I'm paying for it.

[88ssp]

Deanne, I have moved from that location to another one in Streetsboro. Better job, different company, more money, blah, blah. We should still get together some time.

[Ryan218]

that's ruff man. if you still end up needing stock stuff i have all the stock front brake stuff minus rotors. stock 4 lug axles, upper and lower, and tons of other stuff. and a rearend but the center section has been grinded into to get the broken carrier bolt out. also have 4 4 lug dounts you can roll it to her on. there bald though and showing cords :bigthumb:

[88ssp]

After going back and forth, I'm not getting the Mustang. I said fuck it and went and bought a 2002 Explorer Sport, instead. i pick it up on Friday. I know it isn't a Mustang, but at least it's still a Ford.

[mustangboy]

So I guess her plan is to keep the Mustang and drive it. Why is it so important to keep it, just to be a bitch?

[88ssp]

She hates the fucking car. She only wants it to dangle it like a carrot. She can't drive it, that's for sure. Told me I could buy it from her, then the next day she decided against it. Since it is in her name, nothing I can do.

[mustangboy]

If she wants to play dirty I think I would make the fuel pump relay disappear and maybe the rotor under the dizzy. Nothing to damage the car but make it a pain to get moved/towed. So I guess she wants the house too?

[88ssp]

Nope, pending appraisal, I'm approved for the refinanced--I'm keeping the house. She can't afford it. It's in both our names, now, so I'll essentially be buying her out (off her credit/financial responsibility).

[MsBlkramair]

Nope, pending appraisal, I'm approved for the refinanced--I'm keeping the house. She can't afford it. It's in both our names, now, so I'll essentially be buying her out (off her credit/financial responsibility).

Get her to sign a Quit Claim Deed before you refinance, then you won't have to buy her out. She gets all the cars, you get the house. i say that's fair.

[dominickbonella]

after u fuck her sister. then do her mom and then all of her freinds.but if u want to get her back through the car,stick sugar in the tank,wear gloves though.:lol:.i'll buy tickets to wach.:popcorn:

[RACEME]

A buddy of mine went thru a simillar thing with his 69 camero. He pulled the motor, trans and interior out of it, and had it appraised missing all that stuff. He payed her the appraised amount ($2500 i think) and then put it back together after it was all final.

[NUTTSGT]

Actually, I'd delete this thread. If she sees it and copies it, anything happens, it might hold up in court.