Ex's who let themselves go

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

I'm sure you ladies out there can probably relate to this. What happens in a person when they just let themselves go? It's like you date someone and just sap the life out of them or what? My ex picks up our son on the weekends. The fact that the mother is picking up the child and the father has custody should tell you something about this person. The thing that blows me away is that 10 years ago this person was walking hotness. When we met she was like no other girl i had ever been with and swept me off my broomstick if you know what i mean. Things were great for years until we split up. Most relationshits end with both sides saying they're going to do better and usually it's the girl who goes on a diet and works on getting that singles body back.

Well, not this chick. She has totally given up. Gained a ton of weight (and it's not from having our son cause she had at one time lost all that weight) and cut off all her hair and died it some crazy purple color, threw out the makeup, and looks like she washes her face with bacon grease. She doesn't even resemble the same person. It's not age either because she's turning 27 this month so i wouldn't call her old.

What's even more screwed up is i know she's sleeping around because every weekend she comes over with new nasty white trash hickies on her neck so SOMEBODY is hittin that. What is it that happens in a person that triggers this "to hell with myself and everything else" change? Has anyone ever gone through this who can shed some light on it for me cause i'm really confused. Maybe i just ruined her life. I could only hope :lol:

[mustangboy]

She must have realized you were the best she would ever get so why try

[nsaniti]

drugs?

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

She must have realized you were the best she would ever get so why try

Well dude i'm not all that, but as far as being a good man and taking care of her and being there for her, yeah probably.



drugs?

Well, not a year after we split up she was a full blown alcoholic. She's probably into some kind of drugs. She does go to AA but i think that's little more than a meet and greet for like minded people if you know what i mean.

[DeckerEnt]

My wife has already started the diet thing in preparation. She is looking for a job and when she finds one, she says she is out.
Boy I hope the job market improves here real quick.

[k062693w]

My wife has already started the diet thing in preparation. She is looking for a job and when she finds one, she says she is out.
Boy I hope the job market improves here real quick.

LMAO !!! At least she's giving you a heads up so you can start looking too !!! :lol:

[nsaniti]

Well, not a year after we split up she was a full blown alcoholic. She's probably into some kind of drugs. She does go to AA but i think that's little more than a meet and greet for like minded people if you know what i mean.

ya sounds like shes on something, thats usually the only reason someone just stops caring completely. crazy how fast it goes down hill after they get hooked on shit, all they care about is getting more.

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

It's real hard to look at her because i get caught up in trying to see what i used to see in her. I'm not really the shallow kind that thinks everything is about looks and outside image but DAMN she really looked good and now she looks like a butch dike.

[Roush GT]

My wife has already started the diet thing in preparation. She is looking for a job and when she finds one, she says she is out.
Boy I hope the job market improves here real quick.

:eek: What makes her think she won't find her stuff in the front lawn with all the locks changed.

[cobra429boss]

here you go guys....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClNLPMeIKQQ

edit, Who ever let that girl go in the video must of been queer LOL

Carry on ~

[inferno50]

when i got divorced i got custody of my son. my ex moved to north carolina and is now doing nude modeling and poss porn. the worst part is she put up an online diary that talks about her also cheating on her new husband. different person than i knew but fuck her anyway. my new girlfriend makes me wonder what the hell i saw in my ex anyway. and she takes care of my kid like he is her own. best mom my kid will ever have. thanks for letting me bitch.....i feel better lol.

[Pitbull1052]

I'd say drugs D for sure...... and daum Decker sounds like it's time for more parties!

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

when i got divorced i got custody of my son. my ex moved to north carolina and is now doing nude modeling and poss porn. the worst part is she put up an online diary that talks about her also cheating on her new husband. different person than i knew but fuck her anyway. my new girlfriend makes me wonder what the hell i saw in my ex anyway. and she takes care of my kid like he is her own. best mom my kid will ever have. thanks for letting me bitch.....i feel better lol.

Man that's essentially my situation. My GF now has been here since my boy was 3 and he's 7 now and doesn't even remember life without her in it. He doens't remember mom and dad being together. She's been here for him more than his own mother has. You gotta know you have a good woman when she'll take care of some bitch's son. :bigthumb

[93LXhatch]

man i can relate to this topic for sure.....my ex since we split up over a year ago has done nothing but go down hill shes abt to lose her job shes sleeping with so many different people(men AND women) its insane and goes out abt everynite of the week to different bars/clubs im not just making shit up on her anyone who knows me knows i have proof of all this bc im gonna start fighting for custody of my son here soon so im trying to gather as much info on her as i can to help my case.....glad you have custody of your son 85 ss 302 coupe....any advice to help me with gettin custody of my son?

[mustangboy]

my ex moved to north carolina and is now doing nude modeling and poss porn

Anthing we may have seen her in?:lol:

[85_SS_302_Coupe]

No man i lucked out and she pretty much gave him to me. I think she knew i wasn't going to go down without a fight and she can't handle being a full time parent. For the first couple years he lived with me i was fighting the courts because they still wanted support from me but she finally let them know he lives with me and i provide for him so it's all good now.

[Squale iii]

lol @ this thread

[inferno50]

man i can relate to this topic for sure.....my ex since we split up over a year ago has done nothing but go down hill shes abt to lose her job shes sleeping with so many different people(men AND women) its insane and goes out abt everynite of the week to different bars/clubs im not just making shit up on her anyone who knows me knows i have proof of all this bc im gonna start fighting for custody of my son here soon so im trying to gather as much info on her as i can to help my case.....glad you have custody of your son 85 ss 302 coupe....any advice to help me with gettin custody of my son?
GET ALL THE PROOF YOU CAN. myspace and facebook hold up well in court. the judge will order an investigation if they think there is drugs or neglect involved and if she is shitty they will find out. i have been through this all and it is totally worth knowing your kid is safe and not around a bunch of strange men. my attorney the second time was awsome and really reasonable and only made me have a thousand dollar retainer for a huge case. just holler if you need anything.

[chadomac]

Anthing we may have seen her in?:lol:

LOL!!

[big cheif]

dave i am going through the same thing kind of. Carrie is way more smoking hot that my ex. Christy stays with me also. She dont even want to go to her moms house on the weekends. Says her mom is never home for her to see her anyway. What is funny is my ex ol man ask me shit about if she did this and that while me and her were together. He says she is at the bar or at a male "buddys" house. yea my old lady would really put up with me doing some shit like that. Last time i saw her she looked like she was ao coke,meth or some other shit. Christy said she smells pot smoke sometimes comming out of her moms bedroom. Christy will aks her what that smell is and she will lie. Christy says when she is home her mom sleeps all day. David in my case i would have to say drugs and stupidity.Dont get me wrong i have done my fair share of extra curricular items in my day,but when you have kids that shit stopps not starts.